Let's people do their mistakes they will learn from it.

Let's people do their mistakes they learn from it. 

People,friends, colleagues sometimes you are worrying too much about them. 

Stop worrying about them let them do whatever they want to do. 

It is not that you left them in the middle of a road, and throwing them under the bus. 

You can find this kind of people around you at everywhere. at the workplace, family functions. your elderly keep quoting the worries for the loved ones

At workplace you know that your colleague’s approach is killing him/her and maybe ruining his career or he or she can be landed in some serious trouble. 

That you don't want that scenario with them. You are telling them please don't do this such a thing,  make your approach correct or telling them or advising them that it is not the correct way to do the job but they  don't listening to you. And you keep worrying for themselves. They don't listen to you, they don't fall for your advice, they don't even pretend to be listening to you. So in the contrast you are worrying for them but they don't listen, you just show your concern in every way possible believing that it's your own moral duty to guide them, or to stop them doing some serious harmful acts. 

human nature is evolved through times. Without mistakes and the learning behind it humans definitely cannot be evolved. You know that your friend or colleague is doing something wrong and you are keep guiding them or telling them don't do that that way or do the other way or do something else. It's the way of possibility and probability or the perception is different. it's simple maybe you are right or maybe you are wrong or maybe the opposite side is right or maybe wrong. You cannot predict the outcome because there is no such thing as control.you cannot control others lives and decision you can influence them manipulate them. but the controlling others it's not going to be very easy it's highly unlikely you can do the things but in the end it's still be not good enough to let the people know what outcome will come from actions. 

For the real life incident I want to quote here. 

• One of my friend is very highly energetic and ambitious what's to do his own business. Where his family members and friends are worrying about him. They all presume and assume that he may or may not be successful with the venture. doing 9 to 5 p. M job. It's a very good option for the middle class families like them. doing business it's not rightful at that time. 

• But he ignores all the warnings all Advisers all the worries from his loved ones and continue to taking risk and setting up his own business in fail at the moment but a geared up and after three years of intensive workout and doing many more efforts. He is running successful business in the present. So who is the wrong here the people who is worrying about him or my friend who just keep ignore the worries and moved on. 

• He learned from his own experience and do the correct way and keep evolving himself and doing the very best at the present. 

Another real life incident I want to put here it's my own experience. 

• One of my colleague is very good with his work and dedication but I think that the time he needs a little extra push so he can grow further and on some more bucks by exploding new opportunities.

• He had ask me to explore new possibilities for his employment at my workplace and in my circle if I can find a suitable job for him. And he is my friend so I start to find a suitable job for him. I give recommendation to one of my boss on immediate basis.

• And interview call had arranged for him and everything is set up for him but surprisingly he didn't show up at the interview and I am asking him why the hell didn't you show up or not showing some courtesy to your fellow friend. 

• He was on seventh heaven and told me to not to find any job he maybe or may not be doing job in the same field he might be looking other fields to explore and getting some more exposure of the other side. I am literally wording about him calls busy guy has a 15 years of experience in the same field which I am currently working and suddenly he want to wind up the things around him and start a new chapter. I was worried for him how this guy survive and I keep communicating with him for two months but after lengthy Communications I came to conclusion that “he is not worthy of my worry and not necessarily I am paying a very much extra attention to him since is not caring about himself. So why I have to worry about him when is not aware of about his own well being. I let him go and do his own stuff surprisingly after 6 years sudden meeting I came to know that he is failed miserably with his last three jobs at couldn't find a proper decent job with his experience in the field. So he decided to take a job it's not even really a job he become estate broker. It's the best thing that he chooses the other jobs despite of my advice. But you learn the Hard Way when you fall down. He is doing great after failing hard which is never going to be in my capabilities to explain him. Let  the time do the job and you let it go when you find the similar scenario. 

Why am sharing this cause you will find the real life people around you. For them you are feeling that he or she might be doing something wrong but they don't even listen to you so what to do you are explaining them every situation but they don't listen so let them go. They will learn from their own mistakes. And when they come back don't insult or criticized, just welcome them back. Because they already learned the lesson.